Lasting Longer in Bed: Help Your Guy Go the Distance
Many women know all too well just how big of a problem lasting longer in bed is for men. Almost every woman has had her share of sexual frustrations where what should’ve been awesome sex was ruined by a man hitting orgasm too early. Some women find themselves in long term relationships that are completely great – except for the fact their guys have trouble lasting longer in bed. What can be done to fix this issue?
While it can be tempting to put the ball entirely in the guy’s court, there are ways that a woman can help her partner with lasting longer in bed. Some of these ideas may seem a little unorthodox, but they’re worth exploring if your sexual frustration is starting to affect your relationship in a negative way. While some men might be against the idea of a woman delving into his sexual shortcomings, it may be a necessary evil!
So if you want to take an active role in helping your guy with lasting longer in bed, your first step is just to be open and honest about it. A lot of women go through their relationships faking orgasms because their partners just can’t go long enough to actually get them there. Doing this ultimately just hurts both parties – after all, how can a guy improve his sexual skills if he doesn’t know that he’s doing anything wrong?
So while it can be painful, you have to sit your partner down and tell him that he needs to start lasting longer if he really wants to get you off. Obviously, it’s important to handle this delicately. You don’t want him to feel like he’s somehow a failure at one of the defining parts of his manhood!
One simple thing you can do is offer to help him practice. Believe it or not, the more he’s exposed to the intensity of sex, the better he’ll be equipped to last longer. However, you may have found that your own sex drive has depleted after months of not being satisfied during sex. In that case, you may want to consider the Male Massager.
The Male Massager is a unique male sex toy that attempts to stimulate real sex, at least in terms of its intensity. It’s a motorized sex toy that features adjustable speeds so the exact intensity of the sensation can be controlled. This can be a very effective way to “train” a man for longer sex. Have him use the Male Massager regularly. If he feels weird about the idea of using a toy, offer to use it with him. Keep at it for a few weeks and you’ll see some real results – he’ll be able to last longer in bed and you’ll both be able to start enjoying much better sex!
Related Articles
