Erection Last Longer
Premature speculation
A 15 year old male writes:
The question
Hi I am a 15 year old not currently in a relationship and I really doubt I'll be having intercourse any time soon. However, given that I have the time, commitment and attitude for it I thought it might be a good idea to train myself to last longer for intercourse, so that when the time does come I feel good about myself.
...I've read about a lot of techniques online, but given that 'premature ejaculation' is a problem so many people have a lot of anxiety about and there's obviously a huge amount of money to be made in convincing people that you have some miracle cure for their problem, I thought I'd ask you guys about what sort of things actually work in the real world and what's just fantasy.
The edited reply:
Honestly? The biggest fantasy driving the bus here is that the length of time your erection lasts has so much to do with your partner's pleasure.
The idea that what's critical for a female partner in terms of her pleasure is a given size of penis or long-lasting intercourse is based more on men's ideas of what women should enjoy rather than what a majority of women actually do enjoy.
...The long and the short of it is that the vaginal canal, overall, is not the most sensitive part of the female sexual anatomy, not by a serious long shot. That's the clitoris, and it is both internal and external. Much of the vaginal canal isn't rich with sensory nerve endings. The part which is -- usually in the first inch or two of the vagina, and on and around the g-spot -- is also within the internal clitoris, so even when that feels really good, the clitoris is part of why it does.
...But if you want the inside scoop, when a group of women talk about guys who brag they can last an hour or two (and that it’s) something which makes women feel more attracted, what they will often comment on amongst themselves is that there is nothing appealing about that and that, and in fact, he's just turned them off completely. So there you have it, the importance of making your erection last longer is based purely on a myth or ‘phallusy.’
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